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Let me see. One is Martyr-it's a smart satire about art and self-destruction, apparently. James is another one-it's from the perspective of Jim from Huckleberry Finn. Apparently it's incredible. Headshot is supposed to be great-it's about women boxers. And The Husbands is supposed to be really good, too. I don't really read nonfiction on vacation. I just wait until vacation, and then I'll read like six novels in two weeks. | This summer I've been using Kosas regularly-it has a little tint, so it helps conceal flaws. I also really like Supergoop for the body. And Dune, actually, which I think Apple introduced me to-it has a really nice finish to it. |
I mean, I have my TM mantra-that's probably the closest thing to a daily mantra. But lately I've been orienting toward the big picture. I'm really trying to pull out of the minutiae that make me feel stressed. I guess it's like: Think in abundance. That helps my perimenopausal anxiety. If I think in abundance, then it helps me calm down. |
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I don't wear heels anymore. Ever since COVID, I just wear flats. I have a pair of Celine sandals from at least 10 years ago that I just had resoled. I also have an old pair of Hermès sandals I love-they're brown and strappy. And I have these Venetian gondolier slippers I got in Italy that I wear all the time. From the shop, I really like the ATP Atelier Alassio sandals. They're really nice. |
I'm usually a Ray-Ban Wayfarer kind of girl. Just classic. |
I've been using this HeartMath thing a lot. You clip it to your ear and open the app, and it helps you downregulate. It's really cool. I also do peptides-thymosin and epamorelin injections. |
One thing I'm learning is a kind of pain processing therapy which is having a great effect on my nervous system. Essentially it entails going into a hard memory and just sitting with it, helping your brain to understand that there is no current threat, and creating or changing a neural pathway. |
Um, actually, you know, the other day we were standing by the pool and Brad grabbed me and sort of started slow dancing with me to no music. |
Alcohol. My go-to is something I call the Buster Paltrow. It's a cocktail I made up with whiskey, maple syrup, and lemon juice. I eyeball it, but it's usually about two shots of whiskey, one and a half of maple syrup, and one and a half of lemon juice. It's delicious. |
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Lots of Carolyn Bessette-that's from mood-boarding for G. Label. And Melani from the We Do Not Care Club. I love her. |
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There's a great cheese shop down the street in Amagansett Square-Cavaniola's. I love doing a big cheese board with different kinds of cheeses from there, plus pecans and dried fruit. Just a really big grazing board. I also like to wear a long, easy dress that's chic but comfortable-something I can serve and clear in without having to think about it too much. |
My husband's first cousin just got me a set of napkins with "Please leave by 9" embroidered on them. That was pretty brilliant. |
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